have you snooped on OW?

[justwhatIf]

All fb/mobile/email etc blocked on mine and his account. But, I am so tempted to open a different account or unblock/re-block to spy on her. Has anyone done this post Dday? It is like a sick feeling- I don't want to know but I need to.

What are you hoping to find out?
Looking at her pictures won’t help you understand what happened.
For that - ask your husband.

But - if you must look - look. And i’d not bother with fake accounts - unblock on your phone and look.
Unless she blocked you.
Then just use a friend’s phone.

Oh god yes! My reason was to see what they were posting publicly on Facebook of our young dc. Haven't looked for ages now because with time it's mattered less and the kids tell them they don't want stuff going on Facebook. I was mainly shocked by her appearance. A mate had sent me a photo of them together quite early on so know what she looked like .Nothing like me at all. But more shocked by how awful and miserable he looks in all the photos she posts of them together. Makes me think karma has kicked his ass. His mum and her are always brown nosing each other which makes me laugh especially silly as my MIL (technically we are still married) says the same nauseating things about how happy her son looks these days as she used to say on my Facebook posts. At one time I was maddened and desperately upset by it all but now I just think they have got what they deserved and I'm glad he left. Nothing like a good Facebook nosey in my opinion!

OP - I assumed Dday was ‘discovery’ - when you found out about affair and that you and H are working through it.
If that’s the case - looking up OW isn’t helpful.

If he left for her... Of course it’s natural to be curious.
Won’t help, but go for it!!!

And - sorry.