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How to leave DH

7 replies

Snappymcsnappy · 12/05/2018 21:56

When you don't work, have no money, 3 kids and no real support network.
Anyone know?

I don't think we can survive anymore but I don't see how can leave?

Can't stay in current house, joint tenancy, H claims I can stay until I find somewhere else but I'm not sure I believe him

OP posts:
RunMummyRun68 · 13/05/2018 10:57

No money?

If you both want to split then you need to work together to make it happen fairly, putting the children first

Is he on board with the split?

Singlenotsingle · 13/05/2018 10:58

Why isn't he leaving?

RunMummyRun68 · 13/05/2018 11:00

Why should he be the one to leave if op is instigating it?

Storm4star · 13/05/2018 11:00

If it’s a joint tenancy why are you reliant on whether he “lets” you stay there? Citizens advice will be able to give you advice on the practical aspects.

Singlenotsingle · 13/05/2018 15:55

Runmummy: because she's got nowhere to go with the kids. It would be easier for a single man to find somewhere else to live. But whether it's a house owned on a JT, or a rented tenancy, not sure why she's saying he will let her stay. She's got every right to stay.

RunMummyRun68 · 13/05/2018 15:57

Why assume she takes the kids though?

If he's done nothing wrong and she's decided she wants to call time in the relationship, then why should he lose both his kids and Home?

Singlenotsingle · 13/05/2018 16:13

We don't know enough about the background - why does she not want to be with him any more? OP - more info plz?

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