Told him to go by end of half term

[HollyHunter18]

I actually thought I couldn’t go through with it as we started to talk reasonably again and were even holding hands the other evening but then he told me to shut the f up again today and I just can’t take anymore.

I hope I get there Gilead.

I remember your previous thread also. You really do need to get away from this on the surface charming but dangerous individual asap before he further gives you spaghetti head.

I doubt very much he is on any ASD spectrum as well given as well what you have written previously about him and his family background. He is probably all sweetness and light around others as well so you primarily and only cop all his abuses from him. He knows what he is doing here and he is deliberately trying to undermine your very being.

Yes, I thought my ex had Asperger's too. Then I looked around and realised he was an attentive son, a good friend, a reasonable colleague. It was just me, he behaved like this with. If you look around on this board, you'll see lots of women wondering if their partners are on the spectrum. Nine times out of ten, they're just twats. If you haven't already, read Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft. Recommended over and over again on here, and with good reason. you'll never puzzle over his motives again.