I've been living separately for 3 years, and trying to leave for 5 years before that, so I've really had enough of this guy!!
There are loads of ongoing problems with him still trying to control and manipulate me nearly every day - mostly through the children.
He's recently told two big lies to me which were so blatant, one to ruin my bank holiday plans with the kids friends, and one regarding taking kids on holiday.
Both lies were on email - so I feel I have an opportunity to call him out on those lies by simply emailing back to him. My ongoing worry is he will retaliate as he always does by going even more crazy and trying to take children away from me for longer, as he knows that hurts the most. To punish me for calling him out on his lies.
The other option is to of course let him get away with it, as he gets away with all his abusive behaviour every single time.
I'm sure there will sadly be women on here who also have to deal with abusive exes - I wondered what you would advise?