Lots and lots of issues with H. He has a tendency to disappear for “work” for days leave me with all DC, and then text me to say a few things and refuse to answer phone.
I find him abusive. He says I am abusive.
When I am trying to contact him through the only method he alllows (text) about DC and about money (the two things we share and which I NEED him to respond to) he tells me I am giving him chest pain and I “will not rest until I give him a heart attack.”
This is his method to stop communicating. The idea that if I carry on texting I am a sadist who wants his downfall. And if I don’t then I am keeping to his terms.
What should I do?