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How could he do this

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flowerybackpack · 10/05/2018 20:08

Soz just need a handhold and somewhere to vent.

Have a newborn with my ex. Throughout the pregnancy he was back and forth with me whilst (I've just found out) seeing loads of other people. A couple of weeks before my DD was born he got into a new relationship and is all loved up.

He comes round to see the baby and I make myself scarce whilst he spends time with her. But it breaks my effing heart. I loved him so much and he totally messed me up. And now I have to hand over the most precious thing in the world to an absolute nob. I just want to burst into tears when I see him. Today his new girlfriend kept calling him and my heart was in bits.

I feel pathetic and wish I could let go and just focus on my lovely baby. I just feel shit

Ugh.

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NotTheFordType · 10/05/2018 20:10

And now I have to hand over the most precious thing in the world to an absolute nob

Not unless there's a court order. Have you taken legal advice?

OrdinaryGirl · 10/05/2018 20:15

Didn't want to read and run - so sorry this has happened to you. 😔 Not surprised you just want to focus on your baby - congratulations by the way 💐

Toasttea · 10/05/2018 21:03

What a horrible horrible thing for him to do but as your expecting a baby that’s just shitty!! I’m really sorry your going through it. Just focus on you and your baby. You will be fine

SunshineandRain18 · 10/05/2018 21:13

Why is his new girlfriend ringing him while he spends time with his baby?
Doesn't she trust him? Oh the irony!

You've had a lucky escape and I know it doesn't feel like it now. But it will! Eventually! You're just discovering a whole new world with a new baby while trying to newly co-parent with an absolute nob! Cut yourself some slack and breath. Use the time on your own for growth and personal development. Soon you will realise just how much you are worth Flowers

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