Feeling so lost

[Mellodrama]

Me and my DP of almost a year split up last night and I am devastated 😪 I actually thought he was the one and worry I'll never find anyone like him again 😢

He was perfect but would constantly side with his ex wife (who actually walked out on him and their children for another man who she's now married to) 😔

My mum has Cancer, my DC's dad died in March and I have uni exams coming up, I feel like my world is breaking around me 😪😪😪

For you and a handhold.
You have a lot on your plate.
We are here for you

Thankyou @TomDonaldson 😔
Will I ever be happy? 😪

It won't fell like it for a while.
Sorry, but this will take some time to get over.
You've been through a lot and have a lot to handle.
Please look after yourself.
It was a year and he's clearly not 'the one'
Concentrate on your DC and your DMum.
(((((HUGS))))) for you and of course some
So sorry you are going through so much.

Yes concentrate on your kids and your DMum.
My mum was very ill with cancer last year and it was so hard. We were very lucky and she is still here with us.
You are not alone

Sounds like tough times for you. Sorry. When my DH left I used to think I had lost my perfect partner, but he wasn’t perfect and neither is yours.
Good luck

What worries me is that a lot of this was probably my fault due to my insecurities so I'm scared there aren't any other men like him out there 😔 He was genuinely one of the good guys 😔

Mello, if he were genuinely a good guy he wouldn’t side with his ex wife. Maybe he wasn’t ready for a new relationship or maybe he will always be too attached to her. What matters is that it didn’t work for you.

You will grieve and move on, enjoy spending your time and attention on your DCs and taking care of your mum. Maybe he will realise what he’s lost and start to put some boundaries around his previous relationship and in future if it’s meant to be you will find each other again.