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Back at it again.

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Mummyanne · 10/05/2018 16:08

I've been on here for advice before and shortly after me and my partner broke up. We've been back together all of about a month. (We have an almost 2 year old&lil puppy). Things were going so strong after he almost begged for me back admitting what a Ahole he had been; right up until the last week with argument after argument about when we're going to live together, how long it will take to wait for a place, If we want to buy and where. when I suggested not wanting to live in the area he did, he stated he would just buy it for himself. He has payed for a night away for us but things are going back to before where there's no conversations. It's all about him I see him like once a week, he stays with me where him and dog are not really allowed to and hardly has our daughter and I just can't stand the way he speaks to me sometimes I just don't know what to do. Especially as he's still getting angry and refuses to go see a proper cousellor after doing one online session that didn't work out. ( in his defence I've been going through stuff with my anxiety and depression and I am defiantly not a nice person to be around sometimes as I get super agitated and when we haven't seen each other all week where I've been so lonely I get super needy and just wanting conversations and time for us and cuddles and all that sh*t where he wants to chill), also last point to make. He states that dealing with the baby is sooooo easy and I should respect the fact he works his "ass off" ever though everything else is done for him by his mother. Need serious advice on how to make things work.

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hellsbellsmelons · 10/05/2018 16:13

Why would you want to?
He's not changed.
He's shown you who he is.
He's telling you who he is - listen to him. Take heed and act on that.
He won't change.
Walk away and stay away this time!

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