Flowers delivered in post?

[HowRyou]

My wife is staying at her friends. No idea when she is back. Flowers were delivered this morning but had her friends name and our address. Very confusing...all she said was "put them in water please"

The note reads,

I truly feel. You are my life, my heart, and soul. You are my best friend. You are my one true love. You make my life complete. I love you for your kindness, for your caring and giving nature, for your beauty -both inner and outer, and most of all i love you because you are you.

Where is your son?

Do you think wife sent them ? Would a woman send a guy flowers ? Sorry if I’m not keeping up with this . It’s been a long day already

Have you posted about her doing this before?

You need to end this marriage.

What is your question Op?

So far all you have given is drips of weird disjointed information. Relay the full story and then ask your question.

OP have you posted about this situation before? I recall a few very similar threads.

There's more to this surely.
You spoke to someone she hates and she left you? That's quite an overreaction ..doesn't quite add up.

Be clear, ffs. If I can't understand what you are talking about, I can't offer useful advice.

Huh??

If you want advice you've got to explain yourself better!

So 6 months ago your wife started staying with a female friend in her 40s for a few weeks at a time, totalling about 10 weeks or so. Her friend has a son who she says she only thinks of as a brother. You have a 7 year-old together.

Who looks after your child when she goes? What issues have you been having?

Just throwing it out there but maybe the female friend is your wifes new lover??
There’s something weird going on but you do need to explain the full story this is not a normal set up and shes acting very weird from what we can see do far x

Betsy I thought that too

Eh? I'm just not following what's happening here, sorry.
Could you perhaps start at the beginning & explain a bit better?

I am sure you've posted about this before. You were told then that it's over and that she's stringing you along. She isn't fussed about your DD being without her.

The flowers are just another issue in the weirdness that is your relationship.

I have no clue what you are on about as this post makes zero sense

It makes some sense that your wife may have sent flowers to her friend, but accidentally put her own address. Perhaps they are more than friends.

Why does she keep leaving for weeks at a time? Why does she hate this person you spoke to?

Its all a bit confusing but yes it does sound like the relationship is pretty dead.

I am confused too . I agree post the full story but from what can gather she isn’t bothered about been with you or dc????

Sorry everyone, the flowers were delivered by some guy in America. Her friend didnt want her husband to see them. Otherwise he wouls get angry. My wife always seems to hang about with friends who cheat. Post closed.

Thanks

I think she has depression or just doesnt give a shit. A bit of both i think. Maybe midlife crises.

What ?? Don't understand

Post closed? Lol

Well that explains everything. Except the fact that your wife keeps spending several weeks at a time staying at her friends....

She’s depressed and doesn’t give a shit ..... or you don’t trust her, jump to conclusions and are confusing & dramatic.

Hmmmmm

This wins the most barking mad post of the year award:

Sorry everyone, the flowers were delivered by some guy in America. Her friend didnt want her husband to see them. Otherwise he wouls get angry. My wife always seems to hang about with friends who cheat. Post closed.

Thanks

Yeah right. Course the flowers were for her friend.

How does that conversation even go?

American Affair man: Darling I love you but I want to send you flowers.
Unfaithful friend: Forsooth, you cannot send me flower for my husband is a raging demon of jealousy and he will see them. < sobs >
American Affair man Why then my love leave him and come to me.
Unfaithful friend: I cannot. You know I cannot.
American Affair man: I will send you flowers then.
Unfaithful friend: Wait - I will give you my friends address so you can send the flower to her. I won't be able to see them except for a quick visit as they will be at her house. If I take them home, my husband will be suspicious - but if you are dead set on sending me flowers lets do it this way.
American Affair man: That's a might fine plan my love. I will waste my money sending flowers not actually to you but to your mates house that you won't be able to take home. You my darling are Einstein.

Besides which Post closed - you do realise this is a public internet forum?

• the flowers. Autocorrect! Not the flower!

I remember your previous thread about this woman and her friends family. Time for you to protect your child and tell her to fuck off frankly.