Husband who abused me seeking custody of child

[Nevergiveup1]

Hi everyone

Just wanted to know if anyone has been in a terrible situation like me and could offer support.

My husband who I am separated from now is trying to gain main care of our little 3 year old boy by claiming to the courts I’m depressed and therefore not a fit mum.

He has been abusive to me throughout our relationship but is also claiming I’m abusive to him. I know I was witnessed ranting at him and swearing in front of my son. This is totally not my character in work, with my family or friends.

I would really appreciate your comments on this and if anyone has been through a similar situation?

Thank-you

If depression were a reason to remove a child, the whole country would be in foster care.

What a tit.

My friends ex tried this. They got 50/50 custody, not 100%.

Depression is very common, as is occasionally shouting at your tit of an ex

It's absolutely not a reason to be granted sole custody. He's trying it on as he knows it will hurt you.

Is he threatening court or has he applied to court?
How long have you been separated and when does your ex see his son?

If it goes to court it doesn't go on his "testimony" so don't panic.
A judge is likely to order a CAFCASS report where you and ex would be spoken to.Its about the interests of the child and they are not going to remove your child for 1 incident.
I know its easy to say but try to remain calm, put your focus on your life and your son whilst you wait for a hearing date.
Post on legal or other boards as lots of people have experience of this.

Thanks very much for your replies. X

Anybody else been through this? x