Hi, first time poster here! I have recently had a friend confide in me that she is having an affair with a married man. Problem is she is friends with his wife and is continuing to socialise with his wife, family meals with their kids, drinks and even listening to her confide her marriage woes. I don’t know the wife but as a woman I feel so strongly that what she is doing is horrendous. She claims to love the man and they haven’t held back from relations in both their marital homes. When she is talking about him she will come out with the usual affair cliques “in love” “him and his wife don’t sleep together” then in another breath will tell me about the family outing they all shared and conversations they had as though she is just a normal friend to this poor woman. Without going into details she is completely arrogant about it. I don’t know what to do, I’m not sure what she gained by telling me. My oh thinks I should stay well out of it and not see her while she is involved with a married man, but she is a good friend to me and I’m feeling torn. Just wondering what others would do or what they would say to their friend to make her see some sense.