Mostly this will just be verbal diarrhoea but I’m 6 months post finding out about my husband’s affair.
I had thought I was feeling a little better and not constantly obsessing over it, but the realisation that 6 months in and my life has been completely overhauled and the OW swans around daily without a care in the world (seemingly) is overwhelming.
She and my husband work together. I too used to work there. I have a lot of friends there as does he, but for some reason she seems to be being protected by one of the (male) managers.
She is leaving work early unauthorised (going for runs), walking around work dressed inappropriately (relayed back to me by people in shock). Lots of very senior people know, and she continues unaffected.
She is also married with children so it’s not like sh was young, free and single.
My own husband and I are really trying to move forward and he has made huge changes and sacrifices including at work.
I know she should be insignificant to me, but it’s all very close geographically and socially that it’s very, very hard.