Your partners ex still has photos of your partner on social media?
Been out for lunch with a friend, she's been with her partner for a year. She mentioned she had stalked his ex on fb (the mother of his child) and she still has all photos of them together uploaded. He split from her when the baby was young so there's apparently a few pics of all 3 of them together before they split.
They aren't friends on fb now.
She was really upset about it but I just couldn't understand why tbh....she shouldn't of looked! And what can she do about it? Nothing unless she wants to come across as a crazy person demanding they be taken down.
I think she was after sympathy from me but I just couldn't give it.
My dh deleted all his pics of his ex of fb when we got together. I didn't ask him to and probably wouldn't of.
I've looked at his ex's fb profile once before....she also has pics (or did do) of her and dh together still on her fb but she's never been in a serious relationship since. It probably hasn't crossed her mind to delete them.
Yep it wasn't nice for me to see. Absolutely not though it did prove to me that he was unhappy with her. You can see it in his face (zero smiling in any pic, doesn't touch her in any of them and looks like he's been forced to have his picture taken which is what he always said she was like) so for me it was quite comforting that it confirmed what he told me.
I've never looked again and don't plan on doing so tbh. It's what life is now that counts.
But my friend....she's constantly stalking his ex. Constantly looking at the pictures of them together. I just don't get why she's doing this?
He's a lovely guy, really well suited for my friend but I think she has a good chance of ruining it if she carries on like this.
She's said she's going to speak to her bf and admit that she's looked at his ex's profile and the pictures have upset her....OMG she's going to sound like such an idiot.
I really did try and warn her not too.
I'd understand more if they were on his profile. But even then, you can't force anyone to delete it. It's part of their past and they may not want too.
Going forward though, my friend hasn't met her partners child yet. She isn't involved in any of the drop offs etc when he has to go and pick up his son (which obviously means seeing his ex) and I don't think she would handle it very well at all if she can't handle a few pics that are nothing to do with her partner.
I don't know if I should of been abit more sympathetic really. Like I say, I'd understand more if it was him that still had the pictures but he has none, it's all from her. Opinions? She thinks it's just a massive sign that she still wants her ex back.