She’s cheated, her mates confirmed it

[Lostmymind01]

How do I confront my married affair partner and tell her I know she’s slept with another guy without revealing that her friend told me? I knew of the plan because I saw something I shouldn’t of, but the plan changed which I couldn’t know unless I was told. It definitely happened though

What kind of an issue is this. You are ok with her fucking her husband as well as you. However not with a third guy? Not sure what to say really.

I think there has been a word repeatedly misspelled here ....hypocritical should in fact be spelt as hypothetical ... HTH!

Possibly Sassy but thick as mince arseholes also exist

Move on. She’s not that into you.

True

How will you feel when you find out about the fourth guy?

OOhhh grabs popcorn and mug of tea

What about the seventh guy, um, seventh?

What the fuck are you on about, you?! Gobshite.

She’s a real catch OP; fight for her.

You're so funny......

OP are you taking proverbial?

You are having an affair with a woman who obviously has no respect or loyalty to her marriage goes and quite happy to do so but want to be treated like a victim because she is cheating on you now!

I suggest you take a long hard look at yourself. There is such a thing as karma and what you do unto others will come back on you threefold.

Yep OP you thought you were at worst in a love triangle. Now it's looking like a potential love dodecahedron.

Maybe she's looking for someone to burn calories with, and you just don't burn enough.

Ain't that right sassy?

Ha! After what I have consumed today unless there was indeed a seventh, not sure they'd all get burned Einstein

What come around goes around.

I think OP - the issue is that her husband thought she would be loyal - you had a completely different perspective - and yet you thought she would be loyal - low and behold - she is exactly who she presented as - someone willing to lie and cheat.
What speaks volumes is how hard you are finding it trying to confront her! Imagine how hard it must be for her DH to speak about the doubts he will certainly have.
But in anser to your question - there are all manner of ways in which things are innocently discovered - the question surely is - will she lie to you too. Unfortunately - everyone here already knows the answer!
Move on - and tell her DH too and put someone else out of misery as well as yourself.

Maybe she enjoys a jolly good cock fight?

She’s a cheating scumbag, you have extremely low morals too. She owes you nothing.

If you want a relationship with someone who doesn’t cheat, maybe find it with one of the millions of SINGLE women out there.

“Beyonce got cheated on. The most powerful woman in this world.”

. I’d like to live in your imaginary world.

I'm about to get flamed here for this but op... .karma. what goes around comes around. Couldn't really expect a cheat to be faithful could You? This kind of thing never ends well

Also shame on you . I hope to Christ there's no kids involved

I still remember a very funny work-night-out, when one of the group couldn’t make it. One of the men started boasting about her affair with her, only for three of the others to reveal that they were too (all the men were single, not that it makes it right). Their faces as they realised that they weren’t special, were a picture. They weren’t the only ones either. She resigned shortly after being caught out with yet another man. It was awful. The only victim in the whole thing was her husband.