I ended things in November but we have drifted back to seeing each other again.
I ended it because my ds was so very unhappy and hated him.
I realised he still wasn't making an effort and nothing was going to change so I told him Friday it's over and there is no future.
He has now accused me of cheating on him, he is messaging an old friend I fell out with because he wants to know the "proper" reason we fell out. He then called me a whore. At which point I told him to leave.
He then approached a friend and her partner on sat night (he has only met them once before) and spent half hour running me down and telling them everything that had gone on.
I haven't spoken to him about it but I really want to say wtf are you playing at. It feels like he is trying to put a wedge between myself and my friend and isolate me.
But there's no point is there. Am I best to just ignore and not react.