Feeling Lost

[Colin12]

I'm 33 and so is my wife, we've been married 9 years, together for 15. We have two wonderful kids, 2 and 5. Over the past year I've falling out of love with her. She tells me she still loves me.

I still care for her very much and don't want to hurt her, I know it's a cliché but we got together very young and feel like we've grown into different people who want different things.

I'm trying to make it work, weekends away without the kids etc, but it's not helping. I'm still hoping this is a rough patch and I will get over it. Any advice?

Have you got your eye on someone else?

Cherchez la femme?

You were 24. That's not "very young didn't know what we were doing young " life changes with young children, go work on the marriage you commited to.

Hopefully, it is a rough patch, but if not, don't drag it out for another 15 years, as it'll be even more devastating when you'll both be nearly 50. How about marriage counselling?