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Leaving family home - fait notice?

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NickyNora · 06/05/2018 23:27

Relationship is over... 19 years.

My house. Nothing is in dp name.

How much notice is acceptable or fair when asking a partner to leave?

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Buckingfrolicks · 07/05/2018 00:38

Depends on financial situation I think. If there is money for him to Airbnb or cheap hotel, then 2 days notice

If money is tight, say 2 weeks

Even if everything is in your name, if he has maintained the fabric of the home, done diy, garden, bought or contributed to furniture etc then I think you need to give him some money.

NotTheFordType · 07/05/2018 01:28

If you're not married and he's not on the deeds then legally you can evict him without notice.

Is the relationship abusive? Does he have somewhere to go? Do you have DC together?

If he's looking at moving into private rented then a period of a month would be more than reasonable to allow him to view places and go through references.

NickyNora · 07/05/2018 12:23

Grin Give him money???
No way. He's a lazy sod & I've finally woke up & seen what everyone else could see. He's thousands in savings & I've sod all!!

Thankyou for the responses.

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NickyNora · 07/05/2018 12:24

4dc.

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