Horrible gut feeling

[nineteenninetyseven]

Did/does anyone else have a gut feeling they just can't trust their partner? We split 3 years ago for 6 months and during that time both started seeing other people. The people I saw were just rebounds and I didn't develop proper feelings for any of them. But since we've been back together for 3 years even though it's been quite a long time, I can't get over the past and even though my partner has never cheated on me I can't shake the feeling that he will. I have this constant gut feeling that he already is or will soon even though I have no proof of this. He's always out with his friends and their friends and lots of girls and new people without me. How can I move past this or will the feeling never go away?

Just to add - when we were apart for the 6 months he was begging to get back with me nearly every day. He was heartbroken. I don't know why but back then I just felt reckless and like I didn't want him anymore. Of course I realised I really did. So he must love me to get back with me but now the affection has gone.

I learned the hard way to listen to my gut. Your body is trying to tell you something your mind cannot see. There may be nothing to it, (perhaps your guilt is adding?) but if your body is giving red flags, listen to it. For me I ignored the red flags- no sleep, skin rashes, constantly on edge...... only you will know, but if it affects you to the point you are unhappy, will it ever change? The only way to know for sure is to catch partner= painful, or to carry on doubting= painful. You are in a rock and hard place because something has broken your trust.

The majority of people "cheat", so statistically yes it's likely he is already or will "cheat".