Have you ever disappeared from a LTR?

[FeelingLost2018]

As the title says.

Been in a long term relationship (3 years) and I feel he may be undiagnosed aspergers. Anyway there has been countless scenarios of where he has been non empathetic and inconsiderate towards me. But there is one incident which involves a friend of his being inappropriate with me (sexually) and my partner doesn't seem to care about my feelings with regards to his continued friendship. This weekend my DP has gone to the coast to visit said friend for a weekend of laughs and alcohol. And I'm hurt. All I want to do is pack my bags, take my cats and never speak to this man again. Don't know what I need from this post just feeling very lonely and isolated.

Take your cats and run OP. You shouldn't be feeling this way .

Sitting here getting drunk. Thank you for replying to me means a lot.

I think there will be a lot more hurtful incidents in the future so cut and run now

Your wasting time that could be spent in a really loving relationship , you're worth more than this Op . Have a drink tonight, nurse the hangover tomorrow and make your exit plans . Maybe leave a note. It's you're life and you only get one chance to live it . Take care of yourself OP xx

Find somewhere cat friendly to go
Once you have made the decision, you will feel immense relief
Take advantage of time alone - plan tomorrow - when sober!
and
As Scarlett said - tomorrow is another day

Go with your instincts.

But please don't drive.