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Developed a crush out of nowhere

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anonaon · 03/05/2018 20:06

Hey there bit of background info ... happily engaged to an amazing guy he's step dad to my daughter and dad to our three yr old daughter..healthy sex life .. together seven years ..I fancy the pants off him , he compliments me , helps out with housework the whole Shabang! Here's the thing.. out of nowhere I have developed a crush on the delivery guy that comes in daily to my work . This guy is nowhere near in my dp league looks wise , he's balding and slightly overweight and a bit Chevy etc but I can't stop thinking about him! Like a serious crush . There is a bit of eye contact im fairly confident he fancies me a bit, so I'm wondering hav I developed this crush because I know he fancies me a bit? Cos I'm stumped for any other reason.. I can't even play the old " my partner doesn't look at me so I'm flattered by some attention " card because my partner adores me compliments me all the time and we are genuinely loved up! Confused .

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NotTheFordType · 03/05/2018 20:31

Human beings are by nature designed to want sex with different partners.

You can enjoy your crush for what it is, a bit of harmless excitement that doesn't threaten your primary relationship with your children's father,

or you could bang the shit out of Mr Crush and just pray your partner doesn't find out, otherwise he'll feel entitled to a revenge bang as well.

Which appeals most?

anonaon · 03/05/2018 20:37

I couldnt live with myself if I acted on it...I just am annoyed at myself and curious as to why my head has been turned by someone who is no oil painting . Feel really guilty for thinking about him even when I'm not in work

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