Been with my partner for 6 years and we have 3 kids together 4, 2 & 7 months. My oh goes through very long phases of barely being around. He can go 3 days without even popping over and goes weeks without sitting down to have dinner with us. He doesn't like to get involved in the kids and we have a family day out probably once a year! Really shocking. I end up doing everything by myself. On top of this he's become a real liar about small things and about where he goes and who he's with. He said he's worried to tell me in case I get mad. I've become so fed up but I desperately don't want to throw our relationship away. I don't know what to do. He's become so distant it feels like he's a roommate on the odd night of the month that he does stay. This doesn't concern him at all, he's 25 and all about his own social life. Anyone been through the same and what was the outcome?