Might be a slightly muddled post but I am going to try and break it down as much as I can. Me and my partner will have been together 2 years in June. We currently have a 10 month old and I have an 8 year old from previous. When we ment he had come out of a pretty bad relationship of four years. We met on tinder and he decided after 2 weeks he wanted to see how things went and we should not meet anyone else. All good. For 4 months he was closed off. Distant. And hard to get any feelings from. Understood it would take time. Anyway things have been good but I was always concerned about his media habits. He would add random woman he doesn't know on Facebook and instagram constantly. I did ask him why and he said he uses Facebook like a social newspaper that is all. So I left it. Problem was his phone would go everywhere with him. He would never leave it unattended and if he did he would rush to retrieve it. Which sparked suspicion. Unfortunately my suspicions were shown to be true when I did go through his Facebook. He was messaging another woman for 4 months up until I got pregnant getting very emotionally deep calling her beautiful and babe. Saying he would leave it all behind to see how things went with her. All the while being emotionally closed off to me. He would also sit and just chat to woman he doesn't know. Sometimes about our relationship! If seen some of the messages and when I ask him about them some of the things don't add up. An example messages from one girl must of been talking about me. But I couldn't see any previous messages but she knew I had a child from a previous relationship I asked him what was spoken about previously he said nothing what I saw was all that was said. But the next day he said she did reply to one of my old messages earlier saying definitely. Which he said was in reply to him asking if the new avengers film was good. But that message was not in the feed...so he is also lying...
As you can see head is going crazy over here!
Or am I just being a crazy person?