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Negative partner getting me down

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vibrantxlillies · 01/05/2018 19:40

I’ve been with my partner for 4.5 years now and he’s making me feel so down. I’m 4 and half months pregnant and as many other mums know - being pregnant is NOT easy!! Due to my pregnancy I’ve had to come off antidepressants and quit smoking, plus we have just bought a flat that needs everything doing to it, so the fact that he’s being so negative really isn’t helping. He’s always been a negative person but it’s making it impossible to get through the days when I’m around him and he’s making me not enjoy my pregnancy. If it wasn’t for the baby on the way I’d break up with him no doubt. He can’t find the good in anything and even though were in a situation where everything is good he makes it feel like things couldn’t be worse! He’s also extremely critical of everyone we know and doesn’t stop going on about things. Anyway, I could go on forever because there’s been so much that has made me resent him but I’ll stop here. Anyone have the same problem!!? It seems other dads to be are just normal!!!!

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Shoxfordian · 01/05/2018 19:55

If it wasn't for the baby you'd break up then you should break up; you sound really unhappy.

vibrantxlillies · 27/05/2018 19:23

If we broke up we would still have to live together because of financial circumstances. If I could I would, but I think I just need to find a way to cope with the fact that I’m pretty much stuck with him

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