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Am i mad...miscarriage and row and hormones

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shewolfmum · 30/04/2018 19:55

Oh help i feel like an utter bag of shit. I am in process of miscarrage. Have lovely 5 year old. In pain...mainly in bed. Got up earlier to my little girl splilling a glass of water on table and my other half getting all huffy and she bursts into tears and says daddy threw her down on the floor. I helped her up and sat with her and listened and repeated what she said and he just started fireing off about how she just is doing that to get attention blah de blah and can't i see she does that all the time and may have spilt the water as we were telling her to eat her veg. She then daid sorry daddy and i told him to apoologise...she is 5 and even is she did do it for that reason...she is fucking 5. He refused. I kept looking at him in disbelief and her kept muttering fuck off under his breath...or louder. I smashed my bowl and went to pack a bag i am furious...but i don't feel well enough to go anywhere. I feel so fucking awful. Am i nuts? Is he a prick? Do i need to leave when i am better? Help...feeling awfuk my pain is so much worse now i am so upset. And i hate him for this...

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shewolfmum · 30/04/2018 22:58

Am i mad?

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topsy2tails · 01/05/2018 06:40

Hi Shewolf
No you certainly are not mad.
How are you feeling now? This is so awful!!

category12 · 01/05/2018 06:44

If he threw her on the floor, then you need to leave him.

Flowers Sorry for your loss.

SoyDora · 01/05/2018 06:46

Did he throw her on the floor?

shewolfmum · 01/05/2018 08:43

Oh no...he out her down quickly which shocked her...i didn't see it but this is what he said and motherinlaw was there. I am feeling the worst i have ever felt in my life :( so upset

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DuchyDuke · 01/05/2018 08:50

So he didn’t throw her to the floor then Hmm

user1483387154 · 01/05/2018 08:53

He had nothing to apologise for as he didn't throw her down

SoyDora · 01/05/2018 08:56

Well I certainly wouldn’t like my DH telling me to fuck off in front of my child (or at all actually).
Sounds like it’s an emotionally charged time for all of you and you all reacted badly to the situation. Although you need support as you’re going through a miscarriage, not extra pressure.
It does look like a mountain out of a molehill though.

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