So my boyfriend can be really possessive over our daughter and it's driving me mad. An example is that I asked him to change her clothes. My sister was in the room but busy so I assume didn't hear him say yeah and then goes oh aunty will change you. And that annoyed him as he thinks it was rude of her. Then he goes oh I'm going to feed her dinner tonight. I said okay but then I asked him would he be annoyed if my sister asked if she could and I said yeah and then he asked and I told him I already said to sister she could. And his response was well I think you should ask me first. When people try to do things with her he thinks they are taking over and gets annoyed and it's driving me mad!! My family feel they have to be careful giving advice of helping as we are both very set in our ways with her but in that aspect it's not me at all its just him and I don't want my family or friends to have to feel like that! And i shouldnt have to ask him first to do anything with my own daughter!