So fed of the arguing. We muddle on okay on his work days then on his days off, we argue.
This morning, typical example, I get up at 5.45 with baby DS. Do washing, breakfast, get me and ds dressed, feed pets, play with ds etc. DH comes down at 9.30, sits and goes straight on his phone. Babys naptime now so brought him up to have his bottle.
Come up, see the bed is as usual unmade. Shout down to DH and tell him to come and bloody make it so I can sit on it to feed DH. He stomps up and does it, and says 'are you happy now?' which makes me so angry. Sat seething now.
Yes, it is trivial moaning about an unmade bed but I get up with baby ds every single day,I do everything round the house. Feel like his maid. He goes out to work and I am a sahm/student. He is going out with his friends tomorrow all day (sports match) and we are visiting his family this afternoon. Feel so resentful of him. I know a lot of it is I need to get out there myself more, which I intend to. Trying to lose weight, exercise, study to better myself so I can go back to work when DS is older.