I recently started a new relationship we’ve been together 7 months. I thought we was a good match he great with my kids and me with his our families get on. We save together, cook together. We communicate well, spend time together. He asked me to marry him and I said I’d like to be together at least a year before thinking about being engaged. Recently I noticed he’s always on his phone when asked he said it’s a group chat with his friends. On Easter bank holiday he said he had a work meeting and was gone all day and really dressed up. I asked him why would they have in on a bank holiday and why’s hes so dressed up he got defensive. After going away for a weekend this weekend and him constantly being on his phone. I decided to go through his phone and he had been messaging different woman. The bank holiday he met one. He’s messaging his ex inappropriate messages and another woman telling her she’s beautiful and flirty messages.
I’m thinking how do I approach this.