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I think my partner is cheating on me any advice or tips to find out

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Poppygirl1988 · 26/04/2018 16:18

I am in a relationship with a man around five years older than myself the first two years were fantastic, we then decided to buy a home together during this time my mother has passed away so I have been rather disingaged with reality due to my grief, but I have a feeling my partner is cheating on me. He does shift work andinhave now noticed he is spending more time doing late night overtime. I do not drive and use public transport to get to work and home myself I was on the bus coming home from work when I spotted his car on th other side of the road nearly 8 miles from his work which I thought was odd, and also he was supposed to be doing overtime! it has ignited my suspicions and I’m very worried as it has been going on for months now late night overtime, weekend overtime., but I do not see any benefits financially as he has control of the joint bank account we share for the home.
This Is confusing me as he is still being intimate with me and I’m feeling rather sick as I’m sure he is cheating. I’m at a loss with what to do as I’m trying to support my father and younger siblings. I’m at a loss as what to do he never leaves his phone around can anyone advise me?
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yummymummyperry · 01/05/2018 09:35

Poppygirl1988,

You could engage the services of a detective agency. It sounds extreme I know but they can help you by tracking your partner or putting him under surveillance. However, you may not like what they find out but at least you will know the truth one way or another. IF you are pregnant then it is not just about you anymore, you have the possible baby to consider.

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