Please help me stay strong!

[Itsmeaga1n]

I need to end a relationship. I can't go into too much detail because it'd be outing.

He's done nothing wrong but I can't imagine spending the rest of my life with him and it wouldn't be fair to continue when that's what he wants.

There are little things that aren't quite right and I can't see them changing. More importantly I need some time to myself to find out who I am.

I've tried to end the relationship in the past but ended up going back to him. But nothings changed, I still feel the same way.
I don't want to make the same mistake again. I need to tell him it's over. I'm scared if I see him I'll not be able to do it. I'm planning on meeting him after work tomorrow, not sure whether to suggest going for a coffee or to mine .. to be honest I'd rather write a letter

I’d go for coffee it would be easier with people not too far from you. Have courage your doing this for both of your benefits. He will see it in the future.

Thanks. I think I'm doing the right thing. I can't carry on like this.

What are the problems? Why would you be 'outing'?

I think he knows my log in.

Change your login.
Meet for coffee.
End it properly and walk away.
Block, ignore, delete.
Good luck.

Thanks. I've done all that. Just worried he has his own account and will recognise me from what I write.