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AHHH!!!i am so mad want to shout and scream!!

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notnuftime · 14/05/2007 13:09

Hi everyone didnt know quite were to put this but i need to get this anger out before i burst into flames or something!!
I have fybromyalgia so one of the side effects of having this is i keep forgetting things and my LOVELY partner bought me some gluton free bread rolls last night i thought i know i will have some of them for my lunch went to cupboard for them oh not there were are they looked everywhere for them (partner has been known to hide things if we have had an argument)so i rung him at work oh they r in the garage!! duhh never thought of looking in there!! i am soooo mad at him he said he will talk to me when he gets home.
how childish to hide things from me i thought i was going mad it is difficult enough to remember things as it is never mind him doing that!Is this normal behaviour for a 40 yr old man??

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Ifonlyhewould · 14/05/2007 13:14

I would say yes, its normal behaviour for any age of a man

Little boys trapped in big boys bodies!

HuwEdwards · 14/05/2007 13:16

no, it's not normal - it's ridiculous and childish.

I would not expect my DP to hide stuff from me.

Ifonlyhewould · 14/05/2007 13:20

Sorry, I was being flippant.

It is rather odd behaviour i think. I can't say it would have crossed my DP's mind to hide things from me.

Why hide them but then tell you where they are? What was the poin to it? Whats his behaviour usually like?

GameGirly · 14/05/2007 13:20

To be honest, I think that's bizarre behaviour. Not exactly supportive of you in your condition, is it? Very childish.

warthog · 14/05/2007 13:22

no not normal behaviour.

bloody unsupportive and childish yes.

notnuftime · 14/05/2007 13:23

Thanks He gets kids mad too he hides there toys i find them few months later in shed or on top of a high shelf!

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warthog · 14/05/2007 13:24

erm my 1 yo does that.

Ifonlyhewould · 14/05/2007 13:24

Try hiding something of his, all of his underpant perhaps see how he like it!!

fireflyfairy2 · 14/05/2007 13:26

It's not normal.

It's cruel & unkind given that one of your side effects is that you forget things. He sounds unstable actually. Cruel git.

notnuftime · 14/05/2007 13:26

His behaviour is always like this, he is thoughtful sometimes,he will not show his feelings hard for him to say i love you and he can get very childish.I am mad because in my condition i cant go climbing on chairs and things to find the bloomin things!!There is alsorts he has hidden and it gets me and the kids soo mad!!

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notnuftime · 14/05/2007 13:29

I could be as childish as him and hide his chocolate but that wont bother him he will go out and buy more! Hiding the underpants wont work he will wear the ones he has on till he can go to shops and buy more!!

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