Ex has asked to talk to me even though I've called it a day

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So I split with my ex a couple of months ago
It ended badly with him throwing me and my little girl out ( I said I was leaving the relationship as his moods and tempers were getting worse )
I've since moved, got my own place and I'm trying to repair my life
I stupidly answered a call from him a few weeks after i left and got back into contact
The weekend I've told him it's over, we can't have contact.
He didn't seem to accept it so I had to block him

He sent me an email something about a re direction ( didn't need to email me think it's an excuse )
I ignored

He then emailed me saying make sure I set my internet settings so my lo can't access stuff on the internet as he heard on the radio a disturbing story
I ignored

Got an email saying can he come over for a chat
I ignored

Just got one now saying he misses me, can we talk tomorrow

Where do I go from here
I've told him to leave me alone
I just want to heal which he said he would do

I worry as he has made comments such as he can't live without me and do I want him to do something silly

I feel so strong I've made this decision and I'm trying my best to move on but I don't know what to do

I haven't replied as I dont want to get into contact with him

Set up an auto reply for his specific email address re-stating the facts:

There is no relationship to discuss

The only contact you'll accept is the monthly instalments for the money owed

That it's an automatic message and his message has already been automatically archived without being read to a never to be seen again corner of your email unless he stops harassing you, in which case they are being stored as evidence.

If he keeps getting the same, clearly automated response every time he emails he might actually get the message. If he doesn't you have unequivocal evidence you can hand the police if the situation escalates.

Best of luck

Thanks peeps

Block is on
Couldn't work it from my phone so used my friends laptop

Well done!
He’s manipulating you. Remember that, and repeat it, he is manipulating you.
He can probably tell you’re getting back on your feet, building a happy life for yourself and he doesn’t like it one fucking bit