Confused

[Daisydewdrops]

I was seeing a guy for a few months, then I admitted I had feelings and he said he did too but we both agreed we just weren’t ready. SInce then we don’t speak. We work in the same centre but different companies. He always stares at me and others have noticed. If he sees me he doesn’t say anything but he’s always checking to see if I’m at work. What do you make of this? He

Bloke here. He has what's affectionately known as "one-itis" over you.

Sorry I don’t know what you mean by that?

He secretly wishes you had taken it further.
Why didn't you? Ask the guy out 😁

www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=oneitis

He said he really liked me but wasn’t ready. Since then he hasn’t said a word. He’s trying so hard to ignore me.

Perhaps the "other one" he was hoping to get with is giving him the cold-shoulder. Either way, if you're attracted to him it sounds as though it's still "on" to a certain degree. Up to you whether you want to risk the potential embarrassment of making a move and getting rejected though..

I don't understand. You were seeing each other. You both liked each other. So you split up. Is that right?

He sounds like extreme hard work. I think you have dodged a bullet.