Feel stupid writing this

[ohhffs]

At the end of a holiday with my husband. The waitress asked whether we wanted anything more and I asked if he was having another drink. He's retort? 'What's it got to do with you.'

I feel humiliated, embarrassed and confused as to why he would a) say it and b) in front of a waitress.

Not sure what I'm asking here but he is secretive and guarded as if he's always hiding something.

Is he drinking more than he is admitting and getting shitty with you because he thinks you’ve uncovered his secret?

I’m sorry you were humiliated like that, it was a shitty thing to do and really wasn’t fair.

Was he drunk? That’s the sort of antagonistic nonsense my ex would come out with when pissed.

That’s a truly shitty thing to say. Did you ask him why he snapped at you when you asked him a perfectly innocuous question?

He's just an arse and I need to remember that.

Learn your lesson, next time don’t ask him. Order yourself another if you want one

Because he's an arsehole

I've just opened an expensive mini bar bottle of wine and he's snoring. I shall drink the lot to myself and regret it when I have long flight back to the uk tmrw 😊

Get another one for the flight and you’ll be fine

What a horrible man. Please remember that’s not normal behaviour.

What a cunt. Why are you still with him?

Why? Basically because he's an absolute twat.

Is he very good in bed to have made holidaying with him worthwhile?

*Note: good men don't speak like that. Not to anyone, and especially their wives.

That's a very weird and rude thing for him to say.

Was he drunk? Is he usually nasty to you for no reason? It's just a bizzare thing to say in that situation.

Thank you all. He wasn't drunk. Had a few beers but nothing he can't handle.

Probably separation anxiety from his bloody phone as left in room to charge.

Lovely hotel for the last night of a good holiday. Taken the delight out of it for me now,

And no, not usually horrible but he is very deep, guarded and has a lot of control. I guess now and again, what lies beneath gets exposed.

Are you happy in your marriage?