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Defining "space" and how much to give?

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TopDraw74 · 24/04/2018 12:22

When a girl says they need space and time after you've lied about something (not cheating or anything big like that, invasion of privacy via social media account) and its an honest mistake that will never happen again, but they've said I don't want to be with you right now.

What do you do? How much space is enough space, do you give it a few days? Or do you simply wait until she gets in contact first. There's a lot of BIG plans involved in this, needs to be sorted sooner rather than later so I'm wondering how much space to give before contacting.

Any help would be greatly appreciated!

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LiteraryDevil · 25/04/2018 19:40

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Grasslands · 25/04/2018 19:52

OP...whichever name you choose. Sounds like you need to chalk this up as a learning experience.
Back away 100%, after a month move on.
You do sound a bit desperate and clingy.

suspiciousandconfused · 25/04/2018 20:34

How old is this "girl" ? You sound quite young. Not sure how invading her privacy is an "honest mistake" It's not like you did it by accident, you deliberately logged into her account.

LiteraryDevil · 26/04/2018 08:02

Why have I been singled out for abuse when other posters have said the same thing??

Latelearner · 28/04/2018 17:37

Did she get in touch OP?

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