My partner and father of my baby says certain things in arguments and I'm not sure what it actually means. To be honest they're not really arguments it's usually him just ranting at me for something I have or haven't done. Such as not making him food or him having to get up with the baby at 7.30 on a weekend.
So.. as I say, he gets angry and says things like: I'm ugly, he wishes I'd meet someone else, that he doesn't care about me or what I do, that he can do better than me etc. These are just some of the things he says and the insults can extend to being about my family, friends and job. What I don't understand is if he thinks these things then why is he with me? He says sorry after and that he doesn't mean it but will go on to say the same things the next time.
Does he feel that way or is it something else? I don't know what to think. I'm quite a straight up person so if I say something I generally mean it that's why I can't understand why he would say these things if there was no truth to them at all.