Date with guy not sure if he means it

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After work last night I was outside having s drink chatting to my boss and a regular customer ( bosses mates) boss has joked a few times about he mate flirting.

Sat there and boss just comes out with so you two going to go for s drink then I immediately tried to laugh off etc and boss was like to his mate.. she's a attractive girl, no harm in going for drink etc and friend said " yeah I will take you out if you want" boss said I will give her your number.

No this guy is physically attractive, typical lad, joker etc but he makes me nervous (not in s bad way not wary of him) more in a way that he can just make me go red and embarrassed just by looking at me)

So now I'm feeling all stupid, he may not call but if he does part of me feels like he doing it because he was forced into it etc and I honestly have no idea how to reply to him if he texts

I know I sound like a school girl... I'm not just a lates 30's, single for 3 years and had my heart broken... don't know how to date etc

Just play it by ear and fgs, stop over thinking it.

I know your right, just when you've been out the game so long it hard

Just worried he felt like he had no choice but to agree

Just worried he felt like he had no choice but to agree If this is the case, you won't hear from him.

What's the absolute worst case scenario? Either he doesn't call (problem solved) or he takes you out and he's not really interested, or he takes you out and you're not really interested. You won't have lost anything either way. Or, you could relax and if he calls, go out and have fun. You might have a fantastic time.

Do you actually want to date? There's no shame in saying "sorry my boss was being a twat, I'm happier single."

Don't let your boss dictate your love life! He may pay your wages but he should butt out of playing Cupid.

If you feel in any way uncomfortable OP, just shrug it off, don't do anything just to please your boss or feel like they're doing you a favour. Bloody blokes, what are they like.