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Why she messaging me now?

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mpeters82 · 22/04/2018 10:55

Hi,

In 2013 ended my relationship with my son's father. I had this affair with someone who had a girlfriend. He said he was having problems etc. It came out and he lied about everything and obviously his gf was after my blood. So I had threats about my son so this got sorted. Didn't have anything to do with them at all.
Someone told me the guy I got involved his gf left him. Plus that he takes advantage of volunable woman. Was not interested really had moved on.
Then I kind of went through quite a lot and now I'm happy and single now. Just focusing on my child and getting myself together.
So got a message from her saying something quite rude. She still after my blood maybe. So did not respond to her but blocked her and that is it.
So my question is what is her problem? I have moved on from the both of them. I know I did a wrong thing. I chose to do that and I do regret getting involved with him. He lied about so much. The thing is we all make bad choices and in my case feel that I got my payback. Which no one knows of this too. I am paying for rest of my life now.
Where there are people who do this all the time and are not sorry for their actions. I was and still am.

So what to do I do?

OP posts:
PinkHeart5914 · 22/04/2018 10:58

I guess her problem is you fucked her boyfriend and she’s still bitter about it!

Just block her so she can’t contact you again, that’s all you need to do really

sameoldsame · 22/04/2018 11:19

Well you got lied to by him, but you got out and got away from being lied to constantly.

She probably got years more lies, and if it’s now over, she’s probably trying to unravel everything and find blame somewhere

She’ll get over it eventually, like you have, but clearly she’s just starting this journey.
Just have empathy for her, block and move on.

SoapOnARoap · 22/04/2018 12:33

Block & move on. You owe her nothing. She needs to get a grip after such a long time

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