Hi, I need your advice please... I have known that girl for few years now and we are really good friends. I've always fancied her and joked about it and she knows it, but it has never bothered her, there was some special bond between us. We had a random chat once about girls making out and she said she wasn't interested in girls but she liked the fact that I was finding her attractive. This was nearly two years ago. Since then I stopped thinking about her in that way and just focused on our friendship, which just grew stronger.
Last week we were out celebrating friend's birthday and had too much to drink...I called a taxi and we got in. She rested her head on my shoulder and I made a gesture to move her hair off her face and this is when she leaned forward and started kissing me. We kissed for few seconds and she fell asleep.
Now, I don't think she remembers it and I don't know if I should tell her. She said the next day she didn't remember leaving the bar ...and this is when I realised that she didn't know. My husband thinks I should just leave it. I agree that it may make her feel uncomfortable...at the same time I don't like keeping secretes from her. She may not want to accept the fact that she started it...and I don't know why she did...Perhaps for a split second she thought I was gonna do it, when I touched her hair or maybe she just thought her boyfriend was sitting next to her...would you tell your friend or would you rather try to forget about it?
btw we're both over 35, with kids, relationships and not gay