Will things get better

[Beautifulbridie]

Hi
Sorry but hope for others reassurance that you can come out the other side of trauma.
I went through divorce recently and have an infant daughter. My ex went abroad and refuses to make any contribution. I managed to find a part time job but don’t think I’ve got enough to exist on to be honest. I just don’t know where to turn and things are really getting on top of me. I am doing my very best for my child but it’s not enough. I don’t know what to do and feel overwhelmed

Good morning Beautiful yes you can! I have been through similar, splitting from H with young children with financial worries. You’ll be amazed when you look back how strong and resourceful you’ll become. Just try and take one week at a time.

Are you claiming all the benefits you should be?
Please look into that and make sure you get everything you are entitled to.
This happened to me when my DD was 11.
ExH upped and moved country and didn't pay a penny towards his DD.
It was tough going for a few years but we got through it.
You'll be amazed what you can do and how strong you can be.
Do you have any support at all from family or friends?
What your DD needs is love, food and roof over her head.

I would be ok financially if I went back full time but my daughter is only a year old so I have made the personal decision to work two days so I can look after her. I have no help. No parents or siblings so I do get tired but she is worth it. I just need to find a way to survive.