I have a male friend at work that I see as purely platonic. He's married, but even if he was single, he's not my type. About 5/6 months ago I had a little dalliance with another guy at work and as soon as I told my friend about us, he was really down on the guy. It was nothing serious, just a flirtation/chatting etc but my friend kept on about all his negative traits and he's heard this and that etc. In the end I'm not sure if he even warned him off but it fizzled out anyway. It did make me wonder about my friend though, and I saw him in a slightly different light. I was more guarded etc around what I said to him.
Fast forward to this week. I mentioned one of the men we work with in conversation work related and he started on about how he's getting married etc (to my 'okay...' ??) response and started with the negative comments again. I really want to be paranoid, but it just seems so coincidental. I was telling a friend who knows work man outside of work and he isn't getting married at all, so that was really weird.
I don't really know what I'm asking but don't want any drama at work so don't want to vent to anyone there. Does it sound like he's just trying to put me off these guys? There's a semi attraction to work man, but he's gut a girlfriend so not an option so it just seems bizarre