My partner and I have been together for a number of years but last year after a number of false starts we agreed he would move in. I have a large house and earn a bit more than him but also hand my parents to living here in a self contained granny annex. I asked him for £350 a month. That covered all his food including lunches for work and a contribution towards heating lighting and other bills but not mortgage. (My bills excluding food and petrol and car etc are around £1400 a month). He said he thought that was too much as he wasn't making enough profit. (He had at this point rented two rooms out in his house for £620 a month). He said even £250 a month was too much his mother said as it didn't cost that much. I was flawedas o had thought that effectively he was able to save most of his salary. Am I being unreasonable? Since September he has only given me £250 plus bought wine (around £20 a week ) . It just makes me question whether I'm being taken for a fool.