Pregnant don’t know what to do.

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I am 38 on the pill so this has come as a shock.
Please no judgement on that. I am and we are trying to face it.

I have a dd 10 . Living with my parents with my boyfriend. Plan is for 18 -20 months to save pay off the 10k of debt and save for a deposit.

But now this has thrown me. Oh has made it clear he never wanted kids himself. Loves my dd but didn’t want more. He would prefer me to terminate but would support either way.

I didn’t really want another either but not sure I could terminate and not feel guilty

My parents are christians which is where that probably stems from.

I haven’t been at my job for a year yet. I am the main earner too.

I could literally go either way. I can’t stop crying

Too many questions need answering. How long have you been together? What age is he? Where did he live before moving in with your parents? Why are you the main earner? Whose debt is it? I don't want to shout cocklodger without reason, but fear I will be.

You don't seem to be in a very good position to have another child, but it's whether you want it or not - that's what it boils down to.

He is 32, had a flat share before.

Honestly he isn't a cock lodger by the main earner I meant he earns £1200 pcm and me £2000. So that would be a big wage drop.

I can think of loads of reasons to terminate but only one to keep is guilt.

Is that the right thing?

I don't know.

I think this is not the place for you to get answers you need support froma proffesional who can listen to your concerns in real life to help you make such a life changing decision. Please see your gp about your concerns as a starting point.