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20yrs on - am I the only one with a fantastic sex/love life

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learning · 11/05/2007 23:17

To all of you on this forum having difficulties I give my sympathies, but is there anyone here with a great sex/love life after the 20 yr mark

I have and have to say it keeps me sane.

Don't know if anyone likes to dress for love but i certainly do and dh loves it too (obviusly)

Would just like to hear from long time lovers

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Nikki76 · 11/05/2007 23:54

OMG learning!!!! The exact same thing happened to me!! Not just me then!!! Phew!!!

They used to be very sensitive and ahem...receptive (ahh...the good old days!!) but now DH can go for them like they are a Werther's toffee and I'm like....yeah honey....what do you want for dinner tmw night??

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learning · 11/05/2007 23:55

jeez dior do you really read into a few words?? Could have put it differently if you wish me to rephrase

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learning · 11/05/2007 23:58

yes nothing there nada and boy were they receptive up to that so he still can't understand why it has all changed,I just keep saying "hon your kids ate me!'

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MrsDiorKeanuReeves · 11/05/2007 23:58

No, you carry on. Sorry, I think you are having a laugh.

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learning · 12/05/2007 00:00

Fair enough if that is your thought

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Nikki76 · 12/05/2007 00:01

I said to DH there is nothing left of the old me after PG....well except my teeth maybe??!!

That reminds me...my Dad has a huge nose and it seems to have got bigger since he got older. I didn't think much of it until my hairdresser said don't you notice people's noses get bigger when they are pregs so I said no not all...then went home and irrationally convinced myself was growing a massive hooter as Dad has one, I was pregs etc...DH soothed me told me otherwise...went down to see my family for the weekend and best mate came over....first thing she said to me was ooooh your nose has got bigger!!!!

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learning · 12/05/2007 00:01

Dior Was going to post something else but heck it doesnt' matter. Just glad I am happy with my lot. Sorry if your not

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MrsDiorKeanuReeves · 12/05/2007 00:08

Glad you are happy. Sorry if you are for real. You just sounded like a soft-porn mag. It made me suspicious, but then I'm cynical in general. Don't bother posting anything nasty - it's not worth it to get annoyed at one poster's cynicism - certainly not mine.

Nikki76 · 12/05/2007 00:08

Oh dear....every thread lately seems to get all nit picky....

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learning · 12/05/2007 00:12

scuse me I didn't post anything nasty, you were the one who made it look as if I posting something dodgy

Gosh I can really see how newcomers are made to feel like shit on an established forum
supposed to be an "open" forum but guess its not

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learning · 12/05/2007 00:13

FFS Dior just re-read your post. Get a life

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MrsDiorKeanuReeves · 12/05/2007 00:13

You have misunderstood me Learning. I was refering to your 'was going to post something else, but heck it isn't worth it'. Just saying not to bother because it is probably me being too cynical. Glad you are happy, and yes, I'm probably bitter and twisted because my life is shite.

Sorry if I hurt your feelings and welxome to MN

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learning · 12/05/2007 00:16

forget it dior it is al about reading text and taking misunderstandings. We both misunderstood each other.

The joy of "cyber" text

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learning · 12/05/2007 00:18

I ain;t into anything kinky or porno. Just a gal happy with her hubby and glad after 22 years we are still v much in love and comfortable in each others company and if he buys me sexy stuff all the better. I want to feel sexy when I am 90

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learning · 12/05/2007 00:27

Dior don't no your life but wish you well and hope you can sort out the wrong stuff. FWIW my life has not been easy eithergone through many years of shit and this year has been my best so hopefully we will cross each others pathes somewhere on MN where we are in agreement

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Nikki76 · 12/05/2007 00:29

I don't think DH would dare buy me sexy stuff....it would be the wrong size and then I'd flounce!! lol!!

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learning · 12/05/2007 00:31

Nikki my DH has done that but tell him your size and you will be surprised. I recently go properly measured for my bra size. Was totally gobsmacked at the size I was given. Big, big, big

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FiveFingeredFiend · 12/05/2007 00:31

Nothing kinky but 18years married and 21 years together. This area remains fab.

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learning · 12/05/2007 00:34

yeah nothing wrong with us longtimers

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learning · 12/05/2007 00:42

Not to take away from problem relationships but would it not be nice to share "nice" relathionship. No need to go into the ins ands out of the "physical" nature of it but just "nice" stories.

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FiveFingeredFiend · 12/05/2007 00:44

its nice just to 'know'

no effing about.

i can say " what are you doing?" without ruining the moment. As can he.

It just about knowing everything after all this time.

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