Hi Ladies
I've read these posts so many times and with such interest, they have helped me through the break up of my marriage, the separation, splitting of assets and all kinds of other things - thank you!
I now need some clarity before I drive myself crazy with overthinking.
3 months ago I met a guy online, although we met online it turns out we know a lot of the same people. Like a fool I thought this would protect me from the general online crazy...but I am beginning to think I am very wrong.
A very long story of how things have been going but basically when the guy and I are together things are fantastic but when we are apart there is something going on which is just not right. I'd be totally guessing if I tried to suss out what it was, we have spoken about it and he is going through a really tough time at the moment. Again won't go into many details but I do know there are real issues there (verified by the group we both know).
We were going okay last week but this week was always going to be tough for him personally.
At the beginning of the week and totally out of the blue I got a text to say he was not going so well, did not know what he wanted and needed some time.
In the circumstances do I say if you don't know what you want then you don't want me or do I leave it and see what happens?
If I end it I may regret it and if I don't I may end up feeling like a doormat.
What do you think?