My partner of 22 was having an emotional affair which almost cost us our relationship. Having gone to relate we appeared to have sorted things out but now he seems to be checking out again and I think he’s started taking her for lunches etc again. When this happened previously someone told me about a site which basically had some “rules” for preserving some dignity and moving on - things like “don’t let him see you cry and look like your content and happy without him” - does anyone know what this was? I’d really like to read it again.