Last year I posted a thread on here (under a different name)? I didn’t know what I was posting for other than to get it all out. I had some lovely replies and some very harsh ones but all were saying I was being emotionally and financially abused and to remove the person from my life even if I physically relied on them (disabled).
Anyway I decided to keep him in my life with completely new boundaries and to talk to him about it. Of course things improved before rapidly going downhill and just as I was about to cut him off (he would of felt it coming), he cut me off. Sadly I’ve only seen £3 of the lot of money he owes me. I’m 3 months on and a lot stronger, mostly dreams make me relive it but in the day I’m fine and feeling more myself. The anxiety I was developing completely vanished and hasn’t come back.
I had to get my main thread deleted as I showed 2 friends to let them in on what’s happening, one one showed her mum who wanted to ring my Mum (we are in our 30’s) but I really didn’t want my mum seeing my thread so I panicked and they withdrew it for me and I decided I can’t post under that name, nor could I of posted sooner.
So to the people who don’t remember helping a ‘confused’ person to see the light, thank you. To others who read harsh LTB replies, listen to them!