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Husband texted an escort but did not meet her

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se8019 · 06/04/2018 21:19

I am new to this forum and this is the first time I am posting.

One week ago my husband gave his phone and asked me to text our landlord and when I was done sending the text a message was opened and it was a text he sent to an escort asking for the availability and price and nothing after that. I think he did not meet her. I did not ask him because I know he will lie that he has done that for his friends and not for him. We are married for 7 years and in this 7 years he lied about his online sex chatting with other women when I found and confronted him that it was his friends who was is using his email. Also he created a profile in social media to attract females. When I was pregnant with my DS of 5 year old he was texting with another woman until 2:30 in the night and when I confronted him he said she was just a friend and nothing else. One year ago also he almost started an affair with his female colleague and was chatting with her and he used to have his phone with him always and used to take it to the bathroom as well. I suspected that he was hiding something from me and he said that due to work pressure he did not know what he was doing and when I confronted he stopped chatting with her. I don’t know what to do now after finding out that he has texted an escort. Even if he did not meet the escort now is he going to do this again in future. Suggestions please. I am really confused what to do now.

OP posts:
Zoflorabore · 08/04/2018 04:53

Agree op that you sound stronger.

Always trust your gut instinct.

You and your child deserve better than this.

Do not allow yourself to be manipulated by your husband.
Would you have somewhere to go if you left? Friends/family?

Hope you're ok Flowers

SandyY2K · 08/04/2018 10:07

Why are you putting up with this nonsense? He's shady as hell and I don't know why you believed his old stories.

You have options...

  1. Leave him
  2. Accept he's a cheat and always will be
  3. Tell him his actions have shown he wants to sleep with others ...So it's an open marriage on both sides

He's untrustworthy.
If you can't afford to leave him ...detach from him emotionally and stop caring about him. He's taking you for a fool. Why is it always his phone that gets used.

MsGameandWatching · 08/04/2018 10:08

He probably did meet her you know and it's most likely not the first time.

BlueEyedBengal · 08/04/2018 10:30

Please put you and your child first, your husband has used you enough. He's not respecting you and nor you child it's time to cut him loose he's only going to keep letting you down , he's a liar and a conman and will remain totally untrustworthy. I hope you will put yourself first, who knows what else he is keeping from you. I wish you well.Thanks

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