Or is there any point?
My youngest sister has conducted a bullying campaign down the years against which I have done little to push back against as it often seemed that no one supported me.
Once, my other sister mentioned she thought there had been bullying going on but that has been about the height of the acknolwedgent of it within my family.
Recently, she has been actively excluding me and my children from events, to such a degree that to ignore it would seem insane on my part ie. don't say anything, act like nothing happned because it is so explicit.
HOwever, I know that by going NC, she is going to go bananas at some point and see my silence as provocation.
In the not too distant future, the lid is going to blow on this and I know things will be twisted into my fault, something I have done....though I cannot work out quite what I have done.
Whilst this head of steam is being developed elsewhere, how can I avoid being the sacraficial victim at the end of the day.
This has all happened before, I don't want the same outcome as previously. I am sick of this. It has ruined my mental health, it is impacting on my marriage, my sanity, my perception of reality. I feel sick waiting for the phone call that will prompt WWIII.
Any suggestions gratefully accepted.