Ok so my OH and I have been together for 5 years, lived together 3, currently in the process of building our first home together (living back with my parents to save) and we have a puppy.
I'm starting to doubt whether I can continue seeing a future in our relationship, we've already built the foundations of our future but he makes me doubt us so much. I'd really appreciate an outside perspective aside from friends & family about whether I am over-reacting and being a "crank/pyscho".
My OH has led a bit of a wild life and I thought at 32 he might have outgrown it now, but he still acts like a 19 year old. He will stay out drinking (& other things) including week days, even when he has work in the morning and not come home until gone 5am or not at all. Tonight for instance, he left the house at 7am and we've not managed to speak today, I got a text from his friend saying his phone has died they'll be home for 7pm and if I need him to call his friend. I then get a another saying they'll be home for 8.30..... 10pm...... I finally decided to call and found out they're actually in a city about 40 mins away and he sounds trollied. Don't know how they're getting home.
This has happened more than a handful of times, he gets a b*llocking (and will do tonight!!) apologizes and then the same thing will happen a month later..
Am I wrong for doubting him and getting sick of it? He goes out on weekends too, I don't want my future to look like this. Would you guys stand for it with your OH's?