How do I approach this?

[sianc91]

So me and oh got together in December 2016, split up for 4 months in July 2017 and have been together since November 2017. We didn't split for anything bad. It just wasn't the right time. So over all we have been together for nearly 11 months, we are exclusive and in a long term relationship. He still hasn't suggested me meeting his kids and his family. He's met my son but not my family. How should I approach this?

I’m not sure if I’ve misunderstood but have the issues with kids only been resolved completely 2 weeks ago?
If they’ve had big changes, moving from one parent to another due to problems at home, on top of anxiety and they’ve only settled back to ‘normal’ 2 weeks ago, I’d say it’s still too soon.

I think people are misunderstanding me here. The issue is more about his lack of communication about these things. I have the kids best interests at heart so don't want to do anything that isn't in their best interests and will obviously move at their pace. I was more worried that it's not something he's thinking about pursuing but he has reassured me it is. No I'm not on their radar yet as it hasn't been appropriate to bring it up due to the other issues. It's hard to explain the anxiety related thing but it was only ever about school and nothing to do with Home and at that point as there was no other explanation that's was the diagnosis but no one knew for sure and there were never any signs of anxiety apart from the one thing which has now stopped.